As an elopement photographer and mom of one with another on the way, I understand the unique challenges of planning an elopement with kids. These 10 tips are what I would follow today to create a meaningful, stress-free family elopement experience that works for both parents and children.
My name is Cynthia and If you need assistance planning your Colorado Elopement, I am here for you!
10 Tips to Create a Meaningful, Stress-free Family Elopement
- Special Outfits. Choose matching outfits or coordinated colors to create a cohesive look and help kids feel included in your elopement. Neutral tones and comfortable layers photograph beautifully and keep children happy throughout the day.
- Specific Roles. Give kids a specific role like ring bearer, flower helper, or vow witness. This helps them feel important and engaged during your elopement ceremony. Meaningful responsibilities can make the experience more memorable for the whole family.
- Unity Ritual. A simple unity ritual is a meaningful way to include kids in your elopement and symbolize becoming a family. Options like a sand ceremony or handfasting allow children to actively participate without adding stress or time.
- Keeping Ceremony Short (They have the attention spam of a fish). Keeping your elopement ceremony short is key when including kids, especially with limited attention spans. A concise ceremony helps everyone stay present and prevents meltdowns during an emotional moment.
- Layers for When it is cold/hot. Dressing kids in layers ensures comfort during your elopement, whether the weather is cold, hot, or unpredictable. Comfortable kids are happier, more cooperative, and ready for photos and celebration.
- Snacks: Packing snacks is essential when eloping with kids and helps avoid hunger-related meltdowns. Easy, mess-free snacks keep energy levels up and allow your elopement day to stay relaxed and fun.
- Have a Helper. Having a trusted adult present during your elopement allows you to stay focused on the ceremony while someone else helps with kids if needed. This support keeps your family elopement running smoothly without distractions.
- Celebrate After. Planning a kid-friendly celebration after your elopement, Like a picnic, dessert stop, or adventure—helps kids associate the day with fun and connection. A relaxed post-ceremony celebration creates lasting family memories.
- Let Kids Help Plan. Involving kids in small planning decisions helps them feel excited and invested in your elopement. Letting them choose flowers, music, or a small detail creates a more meaningful family elopement experience.
- Build in Breaks (My daughter would LOOSE it if she didn’t have a break). Scheduling breaks during your elopement day gives kids time to rest, play, or reset emotionally. Planned downtime helps keep the day stress-free and enjoyable for everyone.
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Conclusion
At the end of the day, your elopement isn’t just about the vows and pretty pictures…it’s about the family you’re building together. When kids feel included, comfortable, and celebrated, your elopement becomes more than a wedding day. It becomes a memory your family carries forward. If you’re planning an elopement with kids and want guidance from someone who understands both motherhood and elopements, I’d be honored to help you create an experience that feels just as meaningful as the love you’re celebrating.
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